I just wanted to post a link to this very important article: https://lonerwolf.com/how-to-love-yourself-more/

I re-registered this domain tonight. I didn’t even know I didn’t have it anymore, and was surprised it was actually still available cause it must have expired years ago. So I was able to get my blog back up. A new phase of my life is about to start, and I wanted somewhere to journal it.

This blog is going to be about me discovering and becoming the real me.  For my first 40 years I was only me in my mind, while trying to be who others, particularly my mother wanted me to be.  I am single, never had a boyfriend.  And in a way, I am glad, because I want to be with someone who likes the real me.  I don’t want to have to pretend to be someone I’m not “til death do us part”.   This is going to require a lot of bravery on my part to stand up for myself.  Wish me luck!